Les Giblin in his book "The Art of Dealing with People" he says there are 3 A's to developing an attractive personality.
1. Acceptance - allow people to make mistakes and LIKE them for who they are.
2. Approval - this goes beyond tolerating others faults. Find something that you approve of and let the person know. When they get a taste of your approval, it will influence their behavior for the positive.
3. Appreciation - this word means to raise in value. Believe in people and what they can become instead of only seeing them for what they are or what they were. One tip I like in this section was "Don't keep people waiting."
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